# Finding Our “Life Calling”  - The author challenges the traditional notion of a single "life calling" and suggests that it's more fulfilling to view it as a journey of becoming the best version of oneself. - Comparing oneself to others is discouraged; instead, the focus should be on personal growth and progress. - The author found traditional methods of discovering one's calling, such as value identification, to be impractical. Instead, they advocate for a more actionable approach inspired by David Spark's life roles system, which emphasizes achieving excellence in all areas of life. - The author encourages readers to define their own life roles and craft behavior statements that reflect their best selves, using these as benchmarks for personal growth and striving for continuous improvement.