# Circle Of Influence (pg. 88-99) – FranklinPlanner Talk ![](https://blog.franklinplanner.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/2024/11/blogpost-2550-circleofinfluence-scaled.jpg) - The concept of the "Circle of Influence" is a framework for understanding how to take control of one's life and effect positive change by focusing on what can be controlled, as introduced by Covey. - Covey encourages individuals to reflect on where they direct their time and energy, distinguishing between the Circle of Influence (things that can be controlled) and the [[Circle of Concerned African Women Theologians | Circle of Concern]] (things that cannot be controlled). - Focusing on the Circle of Concern drains energy and leads to feelings of powerlessness, while concentrating on the Circle of Influence generates positive energy and expands one's ability to make meaningful change. - Covey identifies three types of problems: direct control problems (involving one's own behavior), indirect control problems (involving the behavior of others), and no control problems (situations beyond one's control). - For each type of problem, Covey advises taking proactive steps within the Circle of Influence, such as working on one's habits, changing methods of influence, or accepting situations with grace and focusing on one's response. - Proactive people focus on what they can control, take responsibility for their mistakes, and learn from them, leading to positive outcomes and personal growth. - The Circle of Influence teaches that individuals are responsible for their lives and can control their response to circumstances, giving them the power to shape their environment rather than being shaped by it. - Covey emphasizes that it is not external events or mistakes that hurt the most, but rather one's response to them, and encourages individuals to focus on what they can do to improve themselves and their environment. - By adopting a proactive, values-driven approach, individuals can lead more fulfilling lives, improve their relationships, and increase their effectiveness. - Reflecting on one's [[Circle of Concerned African Women Theologians | Circle of Concern]] and Circle of Influence can help individuals identify areas where they can make positive changes and take control of their lives.